This article was originally published in the McCook Gazette on Dec. 26, 2023.
McCOOK Neb. - Nancy and Jerry Renard have turned their tragedy into a heartwarming tradition that brings solace to others. 23 years ago, on December 29, the Renards lost their beloved son Greg. In the following year, with permission from the city, they began hanging an ornament on a pine tree at the Memorial Park Cemetery on West J Street as a tribute to Greg.
What started as a simple remembrance has now evolved into a meaningful tradition. Every year, the Renards are joined by family and friends as they hang ornaments not just for Greg but also for other friends and loved ones who have passed away. This act of remembrance keeps their memories alive and provides comfort to those who are grieving.
For Nancy Renard, seeing her four-year-old granddaughter recognize and remember Greg is a source of immense joy. "It makes me feel good that even at such a young age, she knows who Greg is," says Nancy. This tradition ensures that Greg's memory lives on in the hearts of his loved ones.
Michelle Hammack, who lost her sister Erika Brown earlier this year and her husband Scott only two years ago, understands the difficulty of coping with loss during the holiday season. As she cares for Erika's children and tries to make Christmas merry, she offers valuable advice to others who are grieving. "Don't shy away from talking about someone's loved one who has passed," suggests Hammack. Sharing stories and memories may bring tears, but it ultimately helps in the healing process.
The Christmas tree at Memorial Park has become a symbol of unity and remembrance. Many others have started joining in to decorate the tree each year. Barbie Long, expresses her gratitude for the tradition, saying, "It has been such a blessing to my friends and me. We love this special tradition." She says that she and a group of her friends who have all lost their Moms and or Dads have been doing it for four or five years.
Understanding that some ornaments may get lost or damaged, some participants have resorted to using disposable ones. Once the New Year arrives, the ornaments are taken down. While most people reclaim their ornaments to bring back the following year, Nancy and Jerry Renard take down the remaining ones. Some ornaments are disposed of, but many are carefully packed away with their collection to be brought back the next Christmas.
The tradition of hanging ornaments at Memorial Park Cemetery has become a powerful symbol of love, remembrance, and community support. As families and friends gather each year, they find solace in honoring their loved ones and sharing their stories. Through this beautiful tradition, the Renards and other participants spread healing and hope during a time when it is needed the most.
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